pipewire в Debian. Не все работает.

Что то не получается заставить корректно работать pipewire в debian12
При обновлении оно само подтялулось, но не заработало. Стал разбираться, прожевал инструкцию на https://wiki.debian.org/PipeWire#Debian_12. Потом прожевал еще много разных мануалов.
По пакетам вроде все стоит что надо:
i gstreamer1.0-pipewire - GStreamer 1.0 plugin for the PipeWire multimedia server
i libpipewire-0.3-0 - служба для обработки аудио и видео в реальном времени — библиотеки
i A libpipewire-0.3-common - libraries for the PipeWire multimedia server - common files
i libpipewire-0.3-modules - libraries for the PipeWire multimedia server - modules
i A libwireplumber-0.4-0 - Shared libraries for WirePlumber
i pipewire - служба для обработки аудио и видео в реальном времени
i A pipewire-alsa - PipeWire ALSA plugin
i pipewire-audio - recommended set of PipeWire packages for a standard audio desktop use
i pipewire-bin - служба для обработки аудио и видео в реальном времени — утилиты
i pipewire-jack - PipeWire JACK plugin
i pipewire-libcamera - PipeWire libcamera plugin
i pipewire-pulse - PipeWire PulseAudio daemon
i wireplumber - modular session / policy manager for PipeWire


По итогу - железно все работает, но не умеет притворятся пульсой что критично.

любое обращение к pulse отвергается
pactl stat
Connection failure: Connection refused


1. Проблему железа исключаем - прекрасно работают aplay и pw-play
2. wpctl status
PipeWire 'pipewire-0' [0.3.65, griz@pc, cookie:3732000604]
└─ Clients:
31. WirePlumber [0.3.65, griz@pc, pid:2001]
32. WirePlumber [export] [0.3.65, griz@pc, pid:2001]
33. pipewire [0.3.65, griz@pc, pid:1998]
55. xdg-desktop-portal [0.3.65, griz@pc, pid:2768]
56. Telegram [0.3.65, griz@pc, pid:7618]
57. wpctl [0.3.65, griz@pc, pid:8062]

Audio
├─ Devices:
│ 40. CMI8788 [Oxygen HD Audio] (Virtuoso 100 (Xonar Essence STX)) [alsa]
│ 41. Renoir Radeon High Definition Audio Controller [alsa]
│ 42. Family 17h/19h HD Audio Controller [alsa]
│
├─ Sinks:
│ * 47. CMI8788 [Oxygen HD Audio] (Virtuoso 100 (Xonar Essence STX)) Аналоговый стерео [vol: 0.41]
│ 49. Renoir Radeon High Definition Audio Controller Digital Stereo (HDMI 2) [vol: 0.40]
│
├─ Sink endpoints:
│
├─ Sources:
│ * 48. CMI8788 [Oxygen HD Audio] (Virtuoso 100 (Xonar Essence STX)) Аналоговый стерео [vol: 1.00]
│
├─ Source endpoints:
│
└─ Streams:

Video
****

Settings
└─ Default Configured Node Names:
0. Audio/Sink alsa_output.pci-0000_07_04.0.analog-stereo
1. Audio/Source alsa_input.pci-0000_07_04.0.analog-stereo

3. systemctl status --user pipewire pipewire.socket pipewire-pulse pipewire-pulse.socket wireplumber
● pipewire.service - PipeWire Multimedia Service
Loaded: loaded (/usr/lib/systemd/user/pipewire.service; enabled; preset: enabled)
Active: active (running) since Wed 2023-09-06 11:26:18 MSK; 31min ago
TriggeredBy: ● pipewire.socket
Main PID: 1999 (pipewire)
Tasks: 2 (limit: 37707)
Memory: 6.6M
CPU: 70ms
CGroup: /user.slice/user-1000.slice/user@1000.service/session.slice/pipewire.service
└─1999 /usr/bin/pipewire

сен 06 11:26:18 pc systemd[1967]: Started pipewire.service - PipeWire Multimedia Service.

● pipewire.socket - PipeWire Multimedia System Socket
Loaded: loaded (/usr/lib/systemd/user/pipewire.socket; enabled; preset: enabled)
Active: active (running) since Wed 2023-09-06 11:26:18 MSK; 31min ago
Triggers: ● pipewire.service
Listen: /run/user/1000/pipewire-0 (Stream)
CGroup: /user.slice/user-1000.slice/user@1000.service/app.slice/pipewire.socket

сен 06 11:26:18 pc systemd[1967]: Listening on pipewire.socket - PipeWire Multimedia System Socket.

● pipewire-pulse.service - PipeWire PulseAudio
Loaded: loaded (/etc/xdg/systemd/user/pipewire-pulse.service; enabled; preset: enabled)
Active: active (running) since Wed 2023-09-06 11:26:18 MSK; 31min ago
TriggeredBy: ● pipewire-pulse.socket
Main PID: 1998 (pipewire-pulse)
Tasks: 2 (limit: 37707)
Memory: 3.0M
CPU: 5ms
CGroup: /user.slice/user-1000.slice/user@1000.service/app.slice/pipewire-pulse.service
└─1998 /usr/bin/pipewire-pulse

сен 06 11:26:18 pc systemd[1967]: Started pipewire-pulse.service - PipeWire PulseAudio.

● pipewire-pulse.socket - PipeWire PulseAudio
Loaded: loaded (/etc/xdg/systemd/user/pipewire-pulse.socket; enabled; preset: enabled)
Active: active (running) since Wed 2023-09-06 11:26:18 MSK; 31min ago
Triggers: ● pipewire-pulse.service
Listen: /run/user/1000/pulse/native (Stream)
CGroup: /user.slice/user-1000.slice/user@1000.service/app.slice/pipewire-pulse.socket

сен 06 11:26:18 pc systemd[1967]: Listening on pipewire-pulse.socket - PipeWire PulseAudio.

● wireplumber.service - Multimedia Service Session Manager
Loaded: loaded (/usr/lib/systemd/user/wireplumber.service; enabled; preset: enabled)
Active: active (running) since Wed 2023-09-06 11:26:18 MSK; 31min ago
Main PID: 2001 (wireplumber)
Tasks: 7 (limit: 37707)
Memory: 26.3M
CPU: 169ms
CGroup: /user.slice/user-1000.slice/user@1000.service/session.slice/wireplumber.service
└─2001 /usr/bin/wireplumber

сен 06 11:26:18 pc systemd[1967]: Started wireplumber.service - Multimedia Service Session Manager.
сен 06 11:26:18 pc wireplumber[2001]: [0:00:14.888727944] [2001] WARN IPAManager ipa_manager.cpp:154 No IPA found in '/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libcamera'
сен 06 11:26:18 pc wireplumber[2001]: [0:00:14.888762027] [2001] INFO Camera camera_manager.cpp:299 libcaдля гномаmera v0.0.3
сен 06 11:26:19 pc wireplumber[2001]: GetManagedObjects() failed: org.freedesktop.DBus.Error.NameHasNoOwner
сен 06 11:26:19 pc wireplumber[2001]: <WpSiAudioAdapter:0x5638bf9d9040> Object activation aborted: proxy destroyed
сен 06 11:26:19 pc wireplumber[2001]: <WpSiAudioAdapter:0x5638bf9d9040> failed to activate item: Object activation aborted: proxy destroyed